Although I see all sides of this I think SN's are an interesting thign to have and to read aobut others. christian names are given to us at birth and really do not always reflect who we are. Nicknames/Screenames do reflect something about us. It would be interesting to know why Tom goes by "Ol' Griz", maybe it reflects who he is better than Tom. I know a lot of Tom's but he is the only Ol Griz I know. Same with Eagle, I sure there's a great story there.
If you stay in forums long you learn to ignore flamers, they are the same buttheads you deal with in line at Wally World and other "real" places. I ignore buttheads at work, in the store, at craft shows, and online. The world is too full of good people to let a few bad ones bug me, at least most of the time [

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"Ray" to most people
"Raymond" to my wife and immediate family
"Wish" to most students
"Mr. Wishart" to people that know me formally
"Mr. Wise-heart" to all those idiot telemarketers
"Wizard" to all my former listeners on the radio (Rock n' Roll forever baby!)
"Woodwish" to all my various woodworking forums members
"Rev. Ray" to my seminary class (although that sounds more like a DJ name)
"Dad" to my own children, and many of my students on my productions staff at school
"long-haired burned-out hippie" to people that don't like me in person
I think you get the idea, call me whatever you want, I answer to them all. By the way, I did get a telemarketer call here last week wanting to speak with "Mr. Woodwish" about a business loan. I just laughed that someone went through the time to track down a phone number for a screen name to offer me a loan.