I tend to use the same glues for the same purposes as
@monophoto above. His post is very good. (I use polyurethane for gluing pen tubes in pen blanks, but do not want to start a discussion in this thread. It should be reserved for other threads.)
-> What do people use for wiping and cleaning oily woods before gluing?
The most popular choices seem to be denatured alcohol (DNA) and acetone. I have also seen mineral spirits used.
I have had DNA raise the grain on some woods before. I wondered whether the DNA was old and had absorbed enough water from the air over time, or whether that "just happens."
I also think about the use of the product. If it is to be "food safe", then I prefer to avoid chemical solvents - oily wood or not. I know that they evaporate quickly from the surface, but wonder if any solvent is wicked and remains deep inside to evaporate over time. I also wonder whether solvents can leave small amounts of chemical residues that do not evaporate.