These are listed in the same grits that is used for sandpaper. There will be some variation in grit by manyufacturer.
Tripoli = 800-1000 grit
This Jewelers Rouge in a tallow carries.
White Diamond = 1500-1800 grit
This is a white ceramic in a wax carrier
12,000 MicroMesh is the same particle size as 2000 grit sandpaper.
There are couple conversion charts that give more information. This one includes all of the sharpening stones.
http://users.ameritech.net/knives/grits.htm
This chart relates the Micro-Mesh numbers to the particle size in Microns, and you can take that back to the first chart. There are other Micro-Mesh charts, but this one is the most accurate.
http://www.gemsociety.org/info/chmesh.htm