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PART 1:
Had a big weekend/week.. Figured someone of you old farts might get a kick at a "young man's" emotional state!

Some of you know, i'm a big NY Jets fan. Once every 3 years, they come to Detroit and play here. Sure as heck, i'm there, in the green and white, acting like a jerk.
This year, my wife Lori, came with us. Her 2nd time at an NFL game, first Jets game. She loves the tailgate, even though she doesn't drink or throw a football.

Just before the game, we went into Ford Field and walked around a bit. She was really antsy to see our seats, so we went to watch some warm ups.

We sat down and she said "I have a present for you". And pulled out a wrapped piece of cloth. I had no clue what it was. I actually thought it was a Detroit Tigers beanie.. (Which I had been looking for the day before)
Nope.

This is what it was:
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At first, I looked at her like I was searching for tuna fish.
Then I noticed she was crying.
Then it struck me that i'm 37 years old and i'm going to have my first child.
Then I realized that the game meant nothing to me anymore.

It took everything I had to keep myself from crying. I really thought I was going to and actually got watery eyes before kickoff.
I usually have a few beers at the game.
I had a lot this game. I don't know if it was because I was celebrating, because I was nervous or because I was in a panic.

Why this is so exciting..
Lori's lost 2 pregnancies in the past. She's also fought off cervical cancer in the past (9 years ago), however, we'd given up and come to closure that we were meant to be dog parents, but not baby parents.

Earlier this year, Lori's cervical cancer came back and she went through a surgery and a ton of medication to get rid of it... Again.
The doctor told us that after it was all said and done, the chances of her getting pregnant increased. We laughed about it.
No more laughing now!

I'm going to be fifty damn six years old when my child is 18.
That's a long damn way away!
 
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PART 2:
Monday, Lori and I went to the OBGYN that handled her cervical cancer treatment.

They had her pee on a stick again (even though the nurse said if she had 3 positive, this wouldn't be different).. Sure enough, it wasn't different.

They also took blood to run her progesterone levels. This will tell us how strong the pregnancy is, rule out an eptopic pregnancy and just let us know its good.

Tuesday morning, no results yet.
I'm a wreck. I need answers. I need them now.

Tuesday afternoon around lunch. A call from Lori...
"Honey" (I can hear her crying, I am nervous)..
"It's official honey, we're having a baby".. I'm containing myself still...
"It's a very healthy pregnancy, my progesterone levels are very high. It's very healthy and strong, we're good"

Lori was going to run down to the doctors office again after work and get her first prenatal vitamins. Routine.

I hung up with her a few minutes later and broke down into tears myself.
20 years of talking about having a baby.
15 years of trying. Here it is.
I'm just ecstatic at this point. A good ecstatic.

About 4pm, Lori calls me again and tells me to shut up and listen.
Well ok then. I guess i'm listening.

When she picked up her prenatal vitamins, the nurse said that the doctor wanted to speak with her real quick.
He came and congratulated her. He let her know how things looked good.
Some things looked TOO good.
Lori's HCG levels were through the roof.

What does that mean?
Either:
A) She's further along than we thought..
B) Twins. (or GASP more than twins!)

We're pretty sure we've got the timing narrowed down to the week. We're actually pretty sure of it because of the cervical medication that she was on. We couldn't do anything for a couple weeks while she was on that.
So, being further along isn't really possible.

Twins?
Well, they say it's common for women in their mid/late 30's (or older) to have twins. I guess those women push out eggs at a higher rate.

Uy Vey.

Things are a changin' around this house!
 
First off congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you for the long story. You did a great jon and I could feel the emotion of it all. At the end all I could think of is the Nissian commercial where the guy pulls his sports car into a 4 door sedan.

This is really cool. Congrats and Lori sounds like a great gal.

As an added note, some of the folks on here may resent that you described 56 as being old. I think in the years to come a child will make that 56 feel young. :eek:

Congrats again and let us know if you find out you are going to do double diaper duty. :laugh:
 
Congratulations!!!! and don't worry about the 18 to 56 thing, when mine was 18 I was 34, much better the way you are doing it.
 
What a wonderful, heartwarming story. One of the greatest things I have ever been called is "Dad."
 
Congrats!!! As a dad who took a long time to get my special angel, and who also understands loosing them (we lost 2 before giving up on a 2nd) - I can say enjoy every minute! And good luck!! May things stay going well!!!!
 
Congratulations.

Just wait until the first ultrasound.....counting....1.....2......

that's the point when I took a HUGE breath.....ok, stopped at 2........whew.....

Twins -- fantastic fun!! You'll get the hang of it after a while......


Again, congratulations!
 
HIP! HIP! hOORAY! pAPA IS GONNA BE A DAD AND MOM IS GONNA BE A MOTHER!
Congratulations to both of you. Happy times are here again.
Charles
 
Congratulations ! My grandmother had 4 sets of twins. My mother being born with a twin brother. These were some of the greatest people I've ever known. I'm sure yours will be great too. Start saving! :smile:
 
Congratulations! There is absolutely nothing better than being a parent. I am sure you have seen the quote somewhere....the harder the journey the sweeter the reward....or something like it. Yours (you and your wife) sounds extra hard. Congratulations again and we expect pictures in a few months!
 
Congratulations. The age thing is not such a big deal. I am 62 years old with a 16 year old daughter, as well as one 26 years old. Age is a state of mind, not in years.
 
Congratulations, I'm 56 and my youngest turned 18 this year. It's no big deal, the only drawback is watching how fast you kid(s) grow up, you will now have a constant reminder that you are getting older too.:biggrin::devil:
 
Thanks all! We appreciate all the kind words.

You always hear about an expecting dad being excited.
I'm well beyond that. I literally broke down in tears because I was so happy.

I manage a shop with a bunch of grease rats working for me. They knew about it from day one and were all on board with us. When they saw me cry, a couple of them did the same. Not as much, but they watered for sure.
One of them made a remark about it being tears of happiness. Tears from a proud father.

That's it too. Proud papa!
 
Congrats Rich! I'm extremely happy for you! I'm only a newly wed and we aren't looking to have kids at this time but when we do you can bet I'll be jumping through the roof when it's my time. :biggrin:
 
Congrats, I will be 62 when my youngest turns 18, I can't tell you the joy of having kids when you are a little older. I should know, 6 kids, 1 boy and 5 girls. :-) Way to go I am truly happy for you.
 
Wow Rich, THAT IS SUCH GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!

I do wait for that post thirteen years from now, when you have TWO or MORE teenage girls and a half dozen "frisky" teenage boys hovering around your doorstep, and your question is "what is the best type of ammunition"....:).

Such a GREAT time! Again, congrats!
 
Wow Rich, THAT IS SUCH GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!

I do wait for that post thirteen years from now, when you have TWO or MORE teenage girls and a half dozen "frisky" teenage boys hovering around your doorstep, and your question is "what is the best type of ammunition"....:).

Such a GREAT time! Again, congrats!


When that is your question consider Corbon :wink:! I love the way your wife told you this .. the shirt etc ... she is very creative and I'm terribly impressed! Such fun times to come for both of you. - You might want to start thinking about turning the spindles for those cribs you are going to need now!!! Again, congratulations all around !

Linda :smile:
 
Fantastic! I'll be 55 when my youngest hits 18, so I know where you're coming from. Kids change you for the better, and they inspire a kind of love that I don't think is possible in their absence. Best wishes for a pleasant and uneventful pregnancy.
 
I love the way your wife told you this .. the shirt etc ... she is very creative and I'm terribly impressed!

Thank you.
She tried to get a Jets jersey, but couldn't get it to Michigan in time.

Now we have to tell her parents, which we won't be doing until Thanksgiving. (Believe me, its HARD to hold this secret till then!)

Each year before dinner, her parents force us all to gather around the table for a family picture. Typically we use my DSLR with a remote shutter that I control.
This year, i'm going to set it up and like normal, i'll say "ok, everyone ready on 3!".. Then hit them with "On the count of 3, everyone say Rich and Lori are having a baby, 123!"

If all goes well, i'll get a great "jaw dropping" photo.

Then after all the hugs and tears, we'll set back up and i'll say "ok, this time for real.. On the count of 3, wait, I forgot to say they're going to be twins!" and shoot the picture again.

Hopefully, it's going to be perfect.
 
Good for you

Congrats!!! Great!!! And the age thing...just look at it as you can be retired for your kids senior year in high school. I could only do that for my youngest (twin girls) senior year in college. Also, twins are ok too, at least they have each other to play with so you don't have to spend all your pen turning time crawling around on the floor with the "rug rats":smile:.
 
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Congrats man. I wish we'd had some sort of clue about our twins.... I'll never forget sitting in the ultrasound room for our 20 wk ultrasound with a 1 yr old little boy and the tech starts fiddling around. I'm looking at the screen watching arms and legs flailing everywhere and thinking, "Oh geez, we're having an octopus...." I was 21 when they were born and scared out of my mind what the rest of my life was going to look like 7 years later we're all still going strong. Our twins have Autism, so just imagine the craziness of three little boys coupled with all the extra little adventures Autism brings to the table. Totally worth it though. Hoping for the best for the pregnancy.
 
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Wow Rich, THAT IS SUCH GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!

I do wait for that post thirteen years from now, when you have TWO or MORE teenage girls and a half dozen "frisky" teenage boys hovering around your doorstep, and your question is "what is the best type of ammunition"....:).

Such a GREAT time! Again, congrats!

Well I kept my muzzle loading rifle prominently displayed over the mantel and made sure I spoke the the visiting boys how well in shot and what a good shot I was....worked for me.
 
Congratulations to both of you, great story and full of energy, I could feel it from here...!

Well, I suppose I lost my turn or was never suppose to be so I'm OK with being a dogs parent...!:wink:

I too spend many years of medical intervention in that respect and we lost them every time, so I can understand what is all about but quite honestly at 52 with a life expectancy limited, I wouldn't wanted to have such of a surprise but because we are all different, I applaud those that welcome such event at a later age stages...!

Well, you both may have waited long enough and with some luck you both will endup with a couple (boy and girl) that would be what a good friend of mine so well expressed, "get it done and over with...!":eek::wink::biggrin:

Best of luck...!

Cheers
George
 
This is Penman1's wife...."The Pen Lady" of Harmony Crossing...
PLEASE keep us updated on the progress and without question post copies of the family photo's or a description of the family photos at Thanksgiving. Given your talent for writing I think I would rather have the description!

Oh and Now we need an update for each Doctors report and of course....a scan of the Ultra Sound! Can't wait! Thank you again for sharing in this wonder life experience! Congradulations and best wishes!
 
Wow Rich, THAT IS SUCH GREAT NEWS!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!

I do wait for that post thirteen years from now, when you have TWO or MORE teenage girls and a half dozen "frisky" teenage boys hovering around your doorstep, and your question is "what is the best type of ammunition"....:).

Such a GREAT time! Again, congrats!

Just remember the words of my good friend Bill Engval. when talking to a young man that was going to take his daughter out on a date. he spoke the best line ever. "I don't have a problem, going back to Prison."

Parenthood is a nice adventure. There will be times that will melt your heart when the flash a smile, when covered in Cake Flour... as well as the rest of your kitchen floor.

Now there will be moments while that child grows up that you will understand why Bears eat their young.

Congratulation on the pending bundle of joy.
 
What a great miracle for the two of you, er, four of you??

Congratulations to Mom and Daddy To Be!

BTW, let us all know when you need more blanks for the new turners!
 
THE IAP IS HAVING BABIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I LOVE IT!!!!!!!
Maybe this will stop some of the bickering:) What a GREAT site!

Respectfully submitted!
 
congratulations!!! You will love being a father. You will hate being a father. You won't be able to wait until they leave. You will rue the day they leave.

Parenting is a challenge but it is sooo much fun and the rewards are sooo worth the effort.

Good luck and try to enjoy every minute!!
GK
 
Thank you everyone!

I guess I got a little too over emotional and dropped a little profanity. Sorry about that, I didn't mean to offend anyone if I did!

I'll for sure keep IAP updated!

I feel like i've got SO long to wait.
I have NO patience for waiting and surprises, so i'm already going nuts. I want the baby and I want it now!
Everyone keeps telling me that the months will fly by, and I know what they're saying, but it's the day to day waiting that's driving me nuts.
I go to work, then can't wait to come home and hug my wife and kiss her belly.
I'm spending all day at work thinking about it.

I hope the CONSTANT dwelling on the baby and things to come will slow down. I'm a little too enveloped into the thought process and I know i'm overthinking it (I have a bad habit of doing that).. But as of now, I can't help it!
 
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