Aesop's fable about the blind men and the elephant is pretty profound. Each of the blind men was allowed to touch a portion of the elephant's body, and then described the elephant based on their experience - and naturally the descriptions varied dramatically.
The bottom line is that what we individually believe is right is heavily biased by our individual experiences. What is right for me may not be right for you.
I mostly use a high-speed bench grinder for sharpening my gouges and scrapers, using shop-made jigs and platforms. A have a sanding disk that I can mount on my lathe that I use to sharpen my skews (and if my lathe is otherwise engaged, I can also use a belt sander) And if those tools aren't available, I also have an oil stone and a couple of diamond hones. .