Daniel
Member
Hello all my friends. I cannot tell you how comforting it is to be able to post this on a forum that I believe genuinely cares. But his is the place.
IN about 3 hours I will be entering the hospital with my mother for her to begin treatment for cancer. She has chosen me to be her support person.
The way they handle cancer treatment now is that there is a person designated to be the support. I am able to be with mom for ever step of her treatment. I can be int eh surgery if I choose to etc. The Doctors are able to give me her medical information, lab reports etc. I am also the primary person in charge of helping her stay in a positive frame of mind and help her basically make other choices that keep her as healthy as possible.
Lucky for me my mother is very healthy otherwise, has an extremely strong personality and many many years of knowing how to take care of herself both physically and mentally. So far she is doing very well.
The issue for today is that she has a deep seeded terror of Hospitals. I completely expect her to have at least a moment of "Flipping out" as we arrive. Please say a prayer of comfort for my mother as these memories begin to be sparked and for me that I am in tune with her enough to help her through it.
Up until now the concern has been about moms mental and emotional well being. Today we begin the battle for the physical with Surgery. From there we will continue to attack the cancer with other forms of treatment that have not been chosen yet. prayers for wisdom guidance and skill for the surgeons would also be appreciated in regard to this physical battle with the disease.
For the most part Mom is doing very well. Much better than most would expect of a person with cancer to be doing.
I will not be near a computer for a while to read all your replies to this request. But I have no doubt they will be here. thank you all.
IN about 3 hours I will be entering the hospital with my mother for her to begin treatment for cancer. She has chosen me to be her support person.
The way they handle cancer treatment now is that there is a person designated to be the support. I am able to be with mom for ever step of her treatment. I can be int eh surgery if I choose to etc. The Doctors are able to give me her medical information, lab reports etc. I am also the primary person in charge of helping her stay in a positive frame of mind and help her basically make other choices that keep her as healthy as possible.
Lucky for me my mother is very healthy otherwise, has an extremely strong personality and many many years of knowing how to take care of herself both physically and mentally. So far she is doing very well.
The issue for today is that she has a deep seeded terror of Hospitals. I completely expect her to have at least a moment of "Flipping out" as we arrive. Please say a prayer of comfort for my mother as these memories begin to be sparked and for me that I am in tune with her enough to help her through it.
Up until now the concern has been about moms mental and emotional well being. Today we begin the battle for the physical with Surgery. From there we will continue to attack the cancer with other forms of treatment that have not been chosen yet. prayers for wisdom guidance and skill for the surgeons would also be appreciated in regard to this physical battle with the disease.
For the most part Mom is doing very well. Much better than most would expect of a person with cancer to be doing.
I will not be near a computer for a while to read all your replies to this request. But I have no doubt they will be here. thank you all.