I'd ask her to reconsider bc she's not exactly going to be writing with it. This will be for the guests to use and having a pen with some meat on it would fit more peoples hands. Also, I'd hate to pay that kinda money for a nice trustone only to turn 95% off! For my wedding I made a blank to match our wedding colors, would that be something to consider?
I think it'd be a great gift but if she said that a Jr. is too big for the guest book I don't know if it'd be the right size for her. Maybe a tycoon/baron size?
the kit depends on your budget but go for 4 of the same kits, 2 rollerballs and 2 fountain and make them all with the same blank. Exotics sells a nice alternate ivory or even ask ed or dawn their opinion (I think they have a wedding white blank or used to

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