It's not that I believe in bad luck, exactly...

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sbell111

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WARNING: If you aren't interested in wading through a rambling, whiny post, this is your chance to turn around.

We knew going in that this fall was going to be a very busy time for us. We've been getting the house in shape to put on the market so we can build a new one. Of late, we had made several upgrades and repairs and had just finished painting inside and out. All that was left was decluttering. We sent two pianos off to climate controlled storage and took the first load of stuff to regular storage. We were working full steam to pack up tons of other stuff and get it to storage, as well as prepare for a yard sale and throw away lots of stuff.

The new property was picked out. It sits on a hill which gives a great view of the surrounding area and allows for a full walk-out basement. We put a contract on the property. We just had to get our house on the market and sold. Our realtor was confident that we could get it sold quickly at a good price.

While the house stuff was happening, we also had other things on our plate. Two toddlers running about doesn't allow for much free time, but we were preparing for the first big show of the season, a three-day art show that we had worked several years to get into. This was year one for us at this very good show and our first show of the holiday season. We were to set up for the show on the last Thursday of September and sell Friday through Sunday. Wednesday had other plans.

I discovered water running down one of our interior walls. Awesome. The plumber would come on Thursday.

I met up with my wife after work that Wednesday. The kids were asleep in her Trailblazer, so we decided to take a drive, rather than to take them home and disturb their naps. We wandered over to the new property and then were going to hit the grocery store, as the kids were waking up and we needed some grub for a quick and easy dinner. We never made it to the grocery store. On the way, we were met by a car that crossed the center line and hit my wife's SUV head on.

Our youngest, Jake, was basically uninjured. Out two-year-old, Sarah, injured her elbow and somehow got bruised on her forehead, but was pretty much fine. I walked away with a cracked rib, sprained tailbone, tweaked knee, and badly sprained ankle. My wife wasn't as lucky. She suffered an open ankle fracture, three broken ribs, and some traumatic injury to her liver. She may walk by Christmas. She can't come home because our house doesn't have a full bath on the main floor and every entry requires the navigation of three or four steps, so she's staying at her parents' house for now. The kids miss their Mommy and she misses them. I take them to spend time with her every day, but that's not the same when you're just a couple years old (or when you're a mom of the toddlers).

The plumber came and fixed the pipe. Eventually, I'll get somebody to come out and repair the big hole he left in the ceiling. Nothing else has happened with the house, of course. Who has the time? Our contract on the land expired and we likely will lose it. The show went on without us as did another and so will the rest of the shows this year. Maybe we will be able to get back in most of them next year.
 
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Wow -major bummer. Here's hoping things turn around soon, and I hope all your family heals soon. I'm glad it was not worse than it was. Land and shows will still be around when you get back in the flow.
 
Ouch!!! I know it may be hard to look at the bright side, but the good thing is that everyone in your family survived the accident. Head on collisions can be NASTY, and although your wife isn't "walking away" from the accident, it could have been MUCH worse.

Shows will come again, new land can be found, injuries heal, and the kids will get over not being close to mom for a short time. Since your wife got the worst of it, be glad that she is still with you and treasure each day just a bit more!
 
Ouch!!! I know it may be hard to look at the bright side, but the good thing is that everyone in your family survived the accident. Head on collisions can be NASTY, and although your wife isn't "walking away" from the accident, it could have been MUCH worse.
Agreed. Several years ago, a different drunk was driving the wrong way on the interstate and hit me head-on. If it wasn't for a handful of titanium and a talented neurosurgeon, my life would be quite different today.
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Holy cow Steve.... You managed to survive not one, but two significant collisions. Call me an optimist, but I think that you have some pretty good luck mixed into that bad luck.

You didn't say in your original post if this accident was caused by a drunk or not. Thats my #1 peeve of driving laws. Drunk driving doesn't have NEARLY the necessary amount of consequences. In this state I hear of 7,8,9,10th occurrences. For some reason we don't penalize them enough until they kill some one. If I ever got into politics/law increased penalty for drunk driving would be my reason to do so.
 
Wow tough break (no punn intended) on all the bad luck. It is quite clear the Lord has different plans than you do. Even though it is questionable at times He will never hand us more than we can handle. Stay strong, time will heal and new opportunities will come about.
 
Steve,
You still have your family:)
Everything else is just details. The up side is that you made it thru possibly the worst day that I can possibly imagine for anyone. I do have to admit that you will have the #1
crappy day story.
God saved you all for a reason,He/she has a plan.
Until you find out just what that plan is,hide in the cellar and have the neighbors slip meals thru the windows!!!
Good things will happen,be patient.
Be Blessed
Mark
 
A lot of US residents trying to come into Canada are shocked when they're turned away at the border because of a major felony conviction they didn't know they had.

Drinking and driving may be a misdemeanor down there, but it's a major felony up here - so please remember that if you're trying to come into Canada, as I've heard of more than a few who didn't get the proper paperwork done in advance and were sent home.

Just an FYI.
 
Still hoping and thinking good thoughts for you and your family, at this point it's time to give the kids some ice cream,give the wife a kiss,Thank God their all ok, AND GET A BABY SITTER FOR A FEW HOURS. You are probably ready for a short break.
 
I wish for you a 2 week getaway, to a place where you can dream about the good luck you and your family are due for. You do not own these recent negative events. You do own all the good things in your life and the energy and attitude to steer this boat to better winds away from the rocks! Good luck and a million prayers for you and your family.
 
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