I've never thought of pecan as being a soft wood unless it's spalted or punky. If so, it might need stabilizing or hardening.
I've turned quite a bit of pecan & when working with the soft stuff, you do have to be very careful if you don't stabilize or harden it first. I use a carbide R2 tool & take light cuts. I might get some small chip outs that are easy to fill, but I don't usually have any blowout problems. The key to using a carbide tool on soft wood (actually applies to any tool) is to take light cuts & use the proper approach angle.
If I run into some really soft spots or get a little chip-out, I drizzle some thin CA on it, rub in some shavings & hit it with a shot of accelerator. Let it set for 15-30 seconds & go back at it, being very cautious in that area. Sometimes, those spots might need a repeat application of CA & sawdust.
Hope this helps.
Edgar