My grandfather said you can you-know-what in one hand and wish in the other and see which one fills up the quickest. He should have thought of all his problems nine months ago.
Guys who aren't ready to be fathers or get anxiety attacks over the thought of becoming a father should keep their pants on.....
Greatest day of my life was the day my son was born. I wound up being a single father with a 5 year old and my 14 year old step-daughter.... loved, and still love every minute of it.