So tell me if you had Millions you would not have some extravagance that you might spend money on that us middle class could not afford?
Probably not. I come from a lower middle class up bringing. My father worked himself to the bone as a custom cabinet maker. Went through two back operations for his trouble. We never had anything extravagant and we never needed anything extravagant. I learned very early the difference between need vs want.
If I had 'millions' the first thing I would do is move out of this country and bring my parents with me. (assuming they would want to leave) I would supply them with a modest home, and enough wealth where they could live comfortable and receive quality health care.
As for myself I don't need more than 1200 - 1500 square foot home with a simple car (hybrid since I have millions) and a nice work shop. If I spent anything 'extravagant' it would be to make the home/shop self sufficient. I would not be buying $5000 suits, $5000 pens, a new car every year and so forth. To me that's spending for the sake of spending.
I would much rather give money to the guy that busts his butt every day to support his family and needs a helping hand. To the guy that's getting shafted by the insurance companies, or someone wrongfully denied disability or 1000 other things that could help the working class instead of giving myself something shiny to brag about to other wealthy individuals.