When I started doing these, I did a LOT of searching and read somewhere that for METRIC threads there are two rules of thumb and I have found them extremely helpful and very easy to remember, no complicated formulas to memorize and you don't have to have a chart hung up on the wall.
1. To find the approximate drill size for drilling a hole to tap threads into, subtract the thread pitch from the thread diameter, an example would be using a 9mm x .75mm tap.
Subtract .75 from 9 giving you 8.25mm or .324". Notice I said approximate, these rules were written without regard to specific material and thread clamping engagement ranges from 50% to 75% DEPENDING ON THE APPLICATION AND MATERIAL USED. For this particular thread size I settled on the "Q" (.332") drill bit because I like the results, you may find another size to suit you better.
2. To find the approximate tenon diameter for the die to cut threads on, just use the major diameter of the thread, an example would be using a 9mm x .75mm die.
9mm is .354" so a tenon of that diameter would be approximate. For this particular thread I settled on .360" as a tenon size and am happy with the results.
My advice would be to use these rules to find the approximate sizes then fine tune from there until you find the thread engagement feel that you think is right for your pens. There is NO 100% absolute correct answer for a proper hole or tenon size for metric threads in acrylic or ebonite!