You have every right to be irritated!!!!
We found her order last night, and it was shipped.
As I have said several times in the last few weeks, the Exotics site has had problems with our host. These problems have led to information (like a few orders) disappearing from our system. As far as email goes, it has been sporadic at best. I did find an email between you and I on 8-27 regarding finishing Merlin's Magic, but there was no reference to this matter.
So, now that we are on the new host, we went back over all the orders---even those marked as "shipped"--last night. We compared the PayPal records to our shipping records to be certain every PayPal had an accompanying shipping notice. There were a handful that did not. They all went out last night--I was able to identify your daughter, when you gave the PayPal date.
I don't doubt that you sent emails, but we did not receive any, other than the Merlin's Magic question. We are certainly not trying to blame you or your daughter for any of our problems.
But, we have tried to be pretty forthcoming in telling the IAP about the difficulties, so that we could handle any issues. A couple people have placed orders by phone when they became completely frustrated with our site.
So, all we can do at this point is tell you we wish that the past three weeks had not happened!!
However, I frequently tell folks, you can't change history, all we can do is strive not to repeat our errors.
That is our plan.
Hope this helps your daughter---she should see her order EARLY next week.