I know I'm sounding like a broken record... but it's because I've helped a few people through the same exact situation before: Call eNom 1-425-274-4500
Explain to them what's happened, they might help you. Technically, you are their reseller's customer but as the reseller's phone is disconnected they might help.
Here's why it's important to act quickly:
eNom Increases Redemption Fee for Domains to $250 USD | Domain Name News (DNN)
12|03|2009 10:50 pm EDT
eNom Increases Redemption Fee for Domains to
$250 USD
So after their "autoRenew" period expires,it will be in redemption. You will have to pay $250 to get your domain back!
Here's the definition of AutoRenewPeriod:
autoRenewPeriod: This status code indicates that a domain has been automatically renewed by the registry upon its expiry date, and that the registry has not yet received payment for the renewal. The registrar will receive a credit note if a domain name on this status code is deleted. The presence of this status code does not prevent any updates to the domain by the registrar.