Nancy,
I haven't read all of this posted here, but I did want to say that if you have changed your mind about turning cocobolo, I can substitute something else for your order. I am still down from my trip and have a cold on top of that, so I haven't packed up your order yet.
Again, this may have been said already, but most if not all rosewoods are sensitizers, which means that they get worse, upon subsequent exposures to the toxin in question. I have had problems with woods in the past, and may be paying for it now, by not wearing a respirator, when I sanded a rosewood pen last week. I was breaking out really badly on my hands, but I started washing exposed skin after working with potentially dangerous woods. Now, I only get an occasional single bump, where I missed washing. I was covered with a poison ivy-like rash for a solid month, and more. I would wear a dust mask at least, if I could handle something on my face (which I can't-it drives me nuts). My beard would allow dust in through the mask anyway.
I have been working with all of the woods that are on the sensitizer list, except for the original "offender" Bolivian Rosewood. It's other name is morado, as it is not a dalbergia. I have turned a lot of Bois de Rose before Christmas and have had only one or two bumps from it. After I washed, they disappeared. I am hyper-alergic, or at least I was, until I was so heavily exposed to it. Even when I pick up blanks to pack for selling, I rinse my hands afterwards. There are times when I forget and those are probably the times when I get the single bumps.
So to make a long story short, I don't have a problem with the rashes anymore. I do need to start wearing a dust mask when I sand the sensitizer-containing woods though.
Rob