Let's see if I have this right. I gather that everyone has their own specific methods, but some methods conflict with others. And it's frustrating when some "methods" include instructions like "with practice you'll eventually figure out how and when to [do this or that]."
That may be true, but I have no idea what I'm watching for. After reading most of the threads and watching several videos on finishing, I've gleened that this might be a suitable sequence for most woods. I've tried to combine several methods into what I hope will be a good place to start. I'm looking for something that's pretty reliable if not universally perfect and simple enough for a caveman until I learn enough to intelligently try something different.
Sand the bare blank to 600 grit sandpaper.
Sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Buff with a strip of grocery bag paper.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Set the lathe on a slow speed (500-700 rpm?)
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a first coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a second coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a third coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a fourth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a fifth coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a sixth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a seventh coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on an eighth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a ninth coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a tenth coat.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Set the lathe to high speed and buff with a strip of grocery bag paper.
From there, it's straight to assembly? Or do I need to apply Ren Wax or something else (I don't have a buffing wheel system)?
That seems like an awful lot of sanding. How much of that is overkill? Are there any steps I can eliminate?
Do I need to sand to 12000 MM and wipe with accellerator between EACH coat or between pairs of coats?
At what points would the paper grocery bag buffing be inserted, if at all?
Is BLO necessary with this sequence? If so, where does it come in?
Would thin or thick CA be better for any of the ten coats?
I'm sorry if this is rudimentary or redundant for the experts, but I have to believe that there are lots of us who are bewildered by the various products and methods to applying a "good" finish to our first pens.
I don't mean to be dense. I just want to do this right from the get go. Thanks for your help.
Ray

Sand the bare blank to 600 grit sandpaper.
Sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Buff with a strip of grocery bag paper.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Set the lathe on a slow speed (500-700 rpm?)
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a first coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a second coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a third coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a fourth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a fifth coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a sixth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a seventh coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on an eighth coat.
Lightly sand with MM from 1500 through 12000.
Stop the lathe and sand lengthwise (with ???)
Restart the lathe at low speed.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a ninth coat.
Apply medium CA to a paper towel and wipe on a tenth coat.
Spray on accelerator and wipe dry with a paper towel.
Set the lathe to high speed and buff with a strip of grocery bag paper.
From there, it's straight to assembly? Or do I need to apply Ren Wax or something else (I don't have a buffing wheel system)?
That seems like an awful lot of sanding. How much of that is overkill? Are there any steps I can eliminate?
Do I need to sand to 12000 MM and wipe with accellerator between EACH coat or between pairs of coats?
At what points would the paper grocery bag buffing be inserted, if at all?
Is BLO necessary with this sequence? If so, where does it come in?
Would thin or thick CA be better for any of the ten coats?
I'm sorry if this is rudimentary or redundant for the experts, but I have to believe that there are lots of us who are bewildered by the various products and methods to applying a "good" finish to our first pens.

I don't mean to be dense. I just want to do this right from the get go. Thanks for your help.
Ray