Rob, I may as well jump in here with my weight loss story. Around last Christmas I went in for a physical and realized that over the years I had slowly crept up to 250 on my 5-10 body. I have always been a little heavy but suddenly I realized that I was now officially fat. I was staying tired and my back was really starting to bother me a lot. I blamed the back problem on years of motorcycle riding, and being young & stupid once. At 54 years old I was starting to realize that if I had known I was going to live this long I wish I had taken better care of myself [

] I knew I couldn't undo any of what I had done to myself, but I had to lose some weight. I have tried diets and they are boring, I'm not, so they don't work. Show me a diet of beer, pizza, nachos, etc. and I will be OK, but those don't seem to exist. Can't stand gyms, just not fond of large groups of sweaty bodybuilders. Putting on the the weight was something that I did so I had to lose it myself. Doctor visit did scare me with new blood pressure medicine, meds to lower cholesterol, etc. So I figured out what I needed to do it required three basic steps-
Exercise- I've owned an exercise bike for years, good place to hang my coat up in the garage, but never really used it much. I decided that I needed to spend one hour per day for me, without feeling guilty that I should be doing something else. I spend the hour on the bike listening to my music (rock n' roll is always good for exercise) and reading as I peddle away. At first it was hard but I kept adjusting and working, soon it was easy. Toughest part was finding enough stuff to read!
Eating- only diet trick I learned was to do "pushaways". I was of the generation that was told ot always eat all you had on your plate, cleaning my plate was to only thing I ever did in school to get a gold star! I just decided it was OK to throw away food. It was the hardest thing to do but I have gotten a lot better, and I also have learned to just not take as much. Still eat the same stuff but now it's 3 slices of pizza instead of the usual 5-7 for example. Also have learned to avoid the junk food snacks, just didn't make sense to take a Twinkie with me when I was on the way to the exercise bike. I have slowly learned to eat wiser, more fiber and less fat, but it was not a really drastic thing to do. Also maybe more red wine and less draft beer [8D]
The last thing was the most important one by far, and the one thing that I had forgotten in previous diet attempts- prayer. I knew I couldn't really do this myself, I needed help. No one around here seemed much help so I went beyond that and asked for HIs help. You can not pray pounds off without following His advice and follow the first two steps above. I also realized that maybe if we take better care of me then maybe I would put off the inevitable meeting with my maker, I have a lot of wood left to turn, and I would like to finish it before they toss me in a box someday.
Bottom line is I that have gone from 250 seven months ago to about 188 today. It is amazing how much better I feel physically, metally, and spititually. Didn't mean to ramble on so long, but I think it was good therapy to write it. Rob, if you are still reading, try to lose some pounds. We love you too much on here to see you go. Every pound makes a difference.
Have had one major setback, 6 weeks ago I fell off the roof and shattered a femur. All I have done is lay here in bed but I have done what exercising I can while laying here, still learned to to do the "pushaways", and spend a lot of time talking with God. I haven't lost much in the last 6 weeks but also haven't gained any, so it's good. I'll be up soon and intend to get down to maybe 180 that I weighed in college, and stay there for many more years.