Tony, Just so you know I am not ignoring what you said. I will watch for the conditions you say can develope. here is my thinking on it with all the bits and pieces I have in my head.
Todays code requires that a ground rod be driven 8 feet into the ground,. even just few years ago I think it was 6 feet, so the truth is they still don't know what is good enough. anyway. my house is grounded to the water pipes but they are only about 2 feet in the ground. and run all over tarnation. my thinking says at worst I grounded my house to a single point that is more in line with todays code than what it has had in the past. the ground and neutral are bonded only at the point they have been connected in the past. although the new wiring also connects them at this point they are not connected at any other point. everything I read or heard mentioned concern about the neutral and ground wires being connected at only one point. this is the first time I have heard anything concerning there being more than one ground rod. in fact everything I read said the new box must have it's own ground rod due to the distance from the original box.
My thinking was in agreement with you until I started checking around. originally I thought I woudl jsut connect bare wires to a bar and it woudl all run back to the fuse box. then it all started getting confusing with the new box needing a ground as well. anyway my thinking was like yours and I kept getting info that said I was wrong, I couldn't understand why and am still not sure I do, What I do know is that the new ground rod is needed. and I had to get everything connected to it without connecting the bare wires and the white wires. funny though I would think the hard part should be what to do with all the wires that have electricity in them. those I had no question what to do with. but that stupid bare wire that you can chew on all day long is the one that gives me fits.
from what I can tell the real issue is if the ground and neutral are connected at more than one point.