I have Alan's second video, and it's great.
A brief description - try moving the tool higher with respect to the blank, and tilt the cutting edge so it is not resting on the tool rest. You want to use the cutting edge to slice a thin strip from the surface of the wood. Someone posted a link a few months ago to a great online video that illustrated this. I'll see if I can find it.
Here are some: http://www.turnwood.net/videos.html
Sorry, I should further clarify...my "brief description" is meant to convey what some here refer to as the "proper" way to use the skew. I started off using it "as a scraper", and found that that technique worked well for me. I've been playing with the other techniques, and they are pretty neat, too. Ultimately, IMHO, the "best" technique is the one that works best for you.