... My answer is not going to help him anyway neither is anyone elses.
From my own personal experience, the above is simply not true. Reading the opinions of many varieties of turners and vendors and opinionated individuals is VERY helpful.
It was to me when I started and it still is. I often browse this forum and end up spending my hard earned money to try something a few people have expressed their delight in on this site.
There is no where else I can go to get the opinions of folks who turn pens. And who better to give an opinion worth listening to than a fellow pen turner?