It's not a stupid question, but you are missing something. It's called proprietary sizing and it happens everywhere. Why don't all headlights fit any car? Why are there two different bases for candelabra light bulbs? Why do we have electonics and toys that run on combinations of 1.5, 3, 6 and 9 volts? Why don't all charger adapters have the same plugs?
Economically, the manufacturers do not want you to be able to shop replacement parts based on lowest price. Have you ever tried to put a 8.1mm (basically an O size) in an 8mm hole. It won't work. And if you have a 8mm outside diameter tube where the inside diameter does not match the kit design, you will not have a proper pressure fitting.
And if you think drill bits and tubes sizes are complex, wait until you try to make sense of threading.
And how about the fact that Lamy Safari fountain pens take a proprietary cartridge?
And did you know that nibs are not interchangeable, even if they are sized the same? Check out the Waterman nib with the tiny locking flange.
Marketing, sales, price maintenance, proprietary specs. They are all part of the sales game. Just look at Microsoft and Apple!